Sunday, November 5, 2023

Trick or Treat '2023

 


Halloween is our favorite holiday. Since the girls were little, we would take our time finding the 'right' costume. I loved it when I could pick their costumes but I loved it even more when they were able to decide for themselves. Over the years, my two gems have come up with some outrageous, scary, and original Halloween outfits. This year, Amara did a group costume with her friends; A loca Goldilocks and the 3 bears; one who was a bit crazy themselves (that would be Amara- she is who came up this version). Havana was a flamingo. Super cute, original and fun.

We have always done trick or treating with friends. This year, the group grew quite a bit. Eleven teens, who I fed before they headed out. It may have been a bit much, hard to navigate so many. But they mostly had fun.

I was a bit disappointed that my gals were too grown to need me to walk with them, as they knocked on doors down by Hercules by the Bay. That part was a bit sad for me. I decided next year, before Amara goes to college, I am tagging along! Halloween has always been a friend thing but also a family thing and this year, I was reminded once again, that my two gems are quickly approaching adulthood. I want to make as many more memories as possible.

While they are growing up fast, they still are kids. They still counted their candy as soon as they got home, a long standing competition to see who got the most. Through repeated telling, they relived a neighbors haunted house that gave them all the spooky chills, when we stopped on our way home for one last trick or treat. They went to bed tired but happy. Halloween is supposed to be scary, and it is, but it also makes the heart smile as well. 












You’re Never to Old for a Pumpkin Patch




Covid 19 took away visits to pumpkin patches. That was awful. But last year, when things were open, the girls did not really want to go as they were older and Don wasn’t up for it either. I was no happy about that. Pumpkins are wonderful. We love this time of year, with making Halloween a special day and each year the girls carve pumpkins with their dads. Buying them at Trader Joe’s just did not count. So this year, I made sure we would go back one of our favorite family outings. We invited along friends to make it more enticing. With plans made, off we went, only to have it pour down rain along the way. The patch we picked was closed but in Petaluma there’s a lot of pumpkin growing, so off we went to another spot.  We all cheered when it was open. The kids had a blast, their young selves shining brightly through their teenage selves, with pumpkins and a hay maze and even a small petting area with cows, pigs and horses. It was delightful.  Amara and I even took a tractor train ride. Funnel cake and snacks topped off our very sweet visits and we left with boosted moods and happy inner children, because pumpkin patches are wonderful medicine for the heart and soul. (My inner child even wrote a silly poem for this blog; see below)






















Pumpkins big
Pumpkins small
Pumpkins make it a happy Fall

Round and orange, a little bumpy
When you have a pumpkin, there’s no room for  being grumpy

Pumpkins to pick
Pumpkins to eat
No matter what you do, they are always a treat

They boast your mood
They make you smile
And pumpkins will last on your porch for a good log while


Pumpkins are good for one and all
So pick some pumpkins to bring some smiles this Fall.


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