Saturday, December 28, 2019

Christmas 2019

                                                  

This year, we returned to our family tradition of spending Christmas Eve with the Coughlin Clan, down at Aunt Paula's. It was hard to fathom that a year ago, we were celebrating Christmas on a spectacular, warm and relaxing beach on an island off mainland Thailand. And while the memories of our last holiday season are strongly rooted in my heart, it was sweet to return to the traditions of home. The girls had a great time with their cousins. Four year old Joseph has a lot of energy but is one of the sweetest little guys. He is full of love and curiosity. The older cousins and adults enjoyed a holiday trivia game hosted by Tia Paula, which was fun and informative. And as always, we had our soup exchange, along with homemade rolls and cookies, which left us full and satisfied. When we piled in the car, we were happy to have been able to spent yet another Christmas Eve with family. 

Christmas Day found us up a bit too early for some. The gift exchange went well, with a few happy surprises for the two, privileged, small gems. Although some were vocally disappointed that not everything on their list was under the tree. After breakfast and communication, the gratitude returned and inspired some to make the effort to do for others instead of themselves. The day got progressively better with quiet time with our gifts, topped off by a hike with the Hass-Jajeh clan and dinner and board games. 

This year, the holidays came quickly. Quite frankly, I was thankful for that. I am not one to enjoy the holiday season much. I find it too commercial and stressful (which is why that warm, relaxing Thai beach was such a great alternative for at least one year) and in ways insincere. Yet, the time with loved ones reminded me to what the season is about. It also encouraged me to make the effort to make more time in the coming year for quality time with those we love.

             

















Ko Change, Thailand 12/25/18

Xmas 2018


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